It has been my prayer since the age of 25, that God would bring the right man into my life for marriage.  I prayed and waited.  I've consulted friends, family and pastors.   I've even tried to help God and today at 41 I am still single.  I've heard people say, I am surprised that you're single...I mean you have a lot going for you.  I've even heard the opposite as a male co-worker smirked and said you married...that will never happen.  Although I assume that he was joking but those words were felt to the core of my spirit.  So then I think oh well, maybe singleness is my lot in life, after all I am the product of a single mother who was also a product of a single mother and to make matters worse, my dad is single too!  Go figure??  I am not lonely, I am very happy with being single.  Actually I love my peace during quiet times and the freedom to be me.  Somehow I can’t silence that inner voice which cries out and wants to be married.  Many years ago God told me that we would send the right man into my life once I was ready... I am like okay God show me what I need to know like yesterday... 

I want to spend the remaining years on earth with a companion who is my best friend, prayer partner, lover and my covering...  I almost want to give up because the wait has been so so so long.... but I know that I serve a God that is faithful.  So I will continue to stand in faith believing that one day I'll look and there he will be... my husband, my man, my blessing... He who loves God is loving, funny, smart, tall, and handsome and made just for me.  Please join with me in prayer that my hearts desire shall come to past.

Warmly,

Ronda

I will pray for you Rhonda, that you find a GODLY man...Those are hard to find so I bet God is waiting for just the right one to send you.  I am dating a man right now who I am in love with, but I am hesitant to marry because I don't think that he has the fire in his heart for Jesus like I do. I want him to love Jesus the same way I do and it makes it difficult because I know he loves Jesus and believes in Jesus and heaven, etc...but I don't think he has a strong relationship with Jesus.  I am glad you are happy being independent and I hope you meet a nice Godly  man soon! :)